By John
Every year in North America hundreds of thousands of people in their
golden years decide that they have been in the rat race for too long
and retire. Retirement usually means spending the money painfully scrimped
and saved over the course of a working life, perhaps selling the family
house for something costlier, and maybe even buying that long awaited
sports car. Some couples decide to head south instead of enduring our
harsh Canadian winters or whisk off to Europe for a relaxing vacation.
Retirement, to some, becomes a fruitless endeavour to regain the lost
memories and freedom of their youth; before they were harnessed to the
eroding drudgery of suburbia. This second chance promises to provide
the things that even a happy, memorable childhood lack: expensive vacations
and cars, companionship and the comfort of knowing that the working years
are over.
Although this vision does seem like a formidable future, many retirees
find themselves growing increasing restless with their so-called utopian
environment. After the relaxation period is over, the longing to be useful
again becomes evident to become an active member of society again. One
of the most famous literary retirees is Lord Tennyson’s Ulysses.
Ulysses is longing to relive the time when he was an adventurer battling
the mighty gods and defeating the Trojan army. Now Ulysses sees himself
as a proverbial deadwood, not unlike how many other retirees start to
see themselves. They would like to retain the usefulness they once had,
as if some how to justify their very existence. Unfortunately, there
is no cure-all solution, but in the poem Ulysses would like to believe
that a ship, with a crew and infinite possibilities lying ahead of them
would expiate his longing. The lines “There lies the port; the
vessel puffs her sail; / There gloom the dark, broad seas / My mariners,” demonstrates
Ulysses’ hunger for such a ship. Even though he may be too old
to do any productive sailing, in his own mind set he once again has a
purpose. The whole idea of longing for usefulness proves that you
can retire a person but you can never retire their mind.
By John
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